Examples:

• In many relationships, the smaller, less significant partner can become the tail that wags the dog, controlling the emotions and decisions of the larger partner.
• In politics, special interest groups can become the tail that wags the dog, exerting more control and influence over politicians than their constituents.
• In a business, a small but powerful department or individual can become the tail that wags the dog, dictating the direction and priorities of the entire company.
• In a sports team, a star player or coach can become the tail that wags the dog, dominating the team's decisions and strategies.
• In a family, a controlling parent or child can become the tail that wags the dog, manipulating the emotions and actions of the other family members.
• In a government, a corrupt official or agency can become the tail that wags the dog, manipulating policies and decisions for their own gain.
• In a friendship, a dominant or needy friend can become the tail that wags the dog, influencing the activities and decisions of the other friend.
• In a school, a powerful clique or teacher can become the tail that wags the dog, shaping the culture and priorities of the entire institution.
• In a volunteer organization, a few key volunteers or staff members can become the tail that wags the dog, determining the goals and activities of the organization.
• In a movie or TV show, a popular or powerful actor or producer can become the tail that wags the dog, dictating the creative direction and decisions of the production.
• Past TV deals have seen the tail wagging the dog. Now football clubs feel they are equal partners with TV.